We always seem to have this narrative in the ‘positivity’ and self-development world to fuck what the haters think and ignore others ‘opinions’.
While there is a huge amount of truth in that statement (and it is an essential part of living your own best life), there is also another side to that story.
Do you realise that it is important to at times somewhat take into account people’s opinions or advice as they may in fact have something of value to offer?
Of course it’s always nice for people to do it in a constructive way, however there is still something to be said for considering how other people think or what they believe.
Think about your own lifetime. How many times have you changed your perspective and beliefs around things you were once certain about or were unable to comprehend from another person? How many times have you not been completely right?
The ability to continually self-evaluate is crucial to building character and becoming a better person all round, not just for others, but more importantly, yourself.
I pay attention to all information and opinions to enable myself perspective and a well-rounded view on topics, however I am very conscious and careful to what advice and beliefs I take from others.
I have always far more enjoyed posting things that challenge people’s thinking, rather than taking a side. I much prefer encouraging thinking about specific ideas, opinions and belief systems than getting people on board my own.
I find it so interesting to follow educated people, the ‘randoms’, the ones that most would consider ‘crazy’, and those with really next level ideas. For me personally, it keeps my brain pathways firing and allows me to have a greater respect for what we call the ‘truth’.
I understand and acknowledge all points of view and perspective but I honour my own intuition and what feels right for me.
While I hold myself to my own personal standards, I also consider the effect my words, beliefs, and actions have on other people. I answer to my own moral compass and personal core values first and foremost, but I do take some responsibility and consideration for what I bring to people’s lives and what I contribute to the world